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after you

The way you talk with a good friend when you’re flopped on the grass

is very different from the way you talk to the principal in the hallway

at school. You change your style without thinking. And that’s good.

Manners recognize differences between people. There are certain things

people do that say “You’re number one” or “Your needs come first.”

These actions are called signs of deference, and to lots of people they

symbolize good manners. They’re rooted in tradition—and in kindness.

Deference turns up in all sorts of ways in manners, but here are a few

of the big ones.

Hold doors open for adults. When you and a friend are going

through a doorway, let her go ahead of you.

Guests go first. When you’re pouring lemonade, pour your friend’s

glass before you pour your own. When you start a game, let her have

the first turn. And when there’s only one cookie left? You know who

gets it.