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Use names

Greet people by name. It shows that you care who they are, which

makes them feel good.

If you have trouble remembering names, practice saying them when

they’re fresh in your mind. For instance, if you’re introduced to a new

girl, say her name right away. (If you didn’t quite catch it, ask her to

repeat it until you do.) Then use her name several more times before the

conversation’s done. The more often you use the name today, the better

chance you have of remembering it tomorrow.

Shake hands

Step up and shake hands when you’re saying hello to an adult, especially

if the situation is fairly formal. Offer your right hand (even if you’re left-

handed) and say the person’s name: “Hi, Ms. Puptent.” When she puts

her hand in yours, clasp it firmly for one quick shake.