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Yes, you. As strange as it sounds, you’re going to be a father. A great one at that, because just through the mere act of reading this book, you’re taking the proverbial bull by the horns and doing your homework to find out what it takes to be a good dad from day one. As they say, anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad.

Even if you’ve never held a baby before, don’t let self-doubt rule the day. Being a good father isn’t about knowing everything about everything; it’s about loving and caring for a baby to the best of your abilities. So don’t be afraid. Yes, that’s easier said than done, but being fearful of what lies ahead doesn’t change the fact that you’ve got a baby on the way, however far off that little bundle’s arrival may be.

If the thought of fatherhood scares you, you need to get used to the label, and the more you say and internalize it, the more it will become you. Start by saying the words “I’m going to be a father” out loud a few times. Maybe even look into a mirror while you say it. You may feel silly, but that’s a small price to pay for a major confidence boost. (Besides, the only person who will see you is you!)