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Turning into a tearful, slobbering mess upon finding out that you’re going to be a father isn’t unusual. Nor is throwing up, feeling faint, laughing, swearing, or any of the normal, healthy reactions people have upon receiving life-altering information.

If your reaction isn’t 100 percent positive, that’s okay, too. Just remember that your partner likely won’t be particularly thrilled if you get upset, defensive, or angry when she tells you she’s expecting. If you’re feeling angry or scared, do your best to react to the news with calmness and class. You’ll have plenty of time to revisit any concerns or frustrations after you give the situation some time to sink in.

Some dads-to-be go into fix-it mode upon hearing the news, ready and eager to crunch budget numbers, baby-proof the entire home in a single night, begin making college plans 18 years in advance, and so on. Feeling like you need to get everything in order before baby arrives is normal, but remember that you can’t do it all in a day. Take some time to celebrate before you dive into the practical side of life with baby. (For more advice on handling the big news, refer to Chapter 4.)