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Special Praise for

DIRT ROADS & DINER FIE

“Dirt Roads & Diner Pie is filled with irony and humor, as well as heartbreaking, compassionate honesty. This is a story told with grace, and in Shonna’s wise and loving words, it sings.”

MORGAN CALLAN ROGERS Author of Red Ruby Heart in a Cold Blue Sea and Written on My Heart

“How many relationships end because the pain and shame of one’s past is projected onto their partner? As a professional who specializes in childhood sexual trauma, as well as a survivor myself, Dirt Roads & Diner Pie chillingly illustrates how insidious sexual abuse can be, and how subtly it can deteriorate even a loving relationship.

“Reading this book was a rare opportunity to follow a couple on the brink and to sit in the backseat of a last-ditch-effort road trip to salvage their marriage. The love Humphrey has for her husband is evident in the tales of their journey, as is the exhaustion, frustration, and fear that stems from feeling helpless day after day. She presents an important reminder that the partners and family of childhood sexual abuse survivors are not on the sidelines—they are on the front lines. Humphrey also reminds the reader of the power of love, courage, commitment, and the willingness to walk through the darkness rather than run away from it. I appreciate that it wasn’t happily ever after in the end, because past trauma never goes away. However, those living with trauma can learn to love themselves, and in the case of this story, so can their partners.”

BRENNON P. MOORE MS, CTT, CADC-II, LPC The Refuge—A Healing Place

“If shame is the most toxic emotion, compassion and humor are the most powerful antidotes. Shonna Milliken Humphrey delivers both. Simultaneously soft-hearted and ferocious, she is the ideal guide to lead us across the broken ground of child sexual abuse.”

HANNAH HOLMES Author of Quirk: Brain Science Makes Sense of Your Peculiar Personality; The Well-Dressed Ape; The Secret Life of Dust; and Suburban Safari

“Every man who is able to have his story heard is not only taking an important step for his own recovery and healing but is also helping to protect future children from having to live through the same abuse. As the director of Male Survivor, the largest support organization for male survivors of sexual trauma, I fully endorse this book and Shonna’s efforts to bring this issue into a broader, public conversation.”

CHRISTOPHER M. ANDERSON Executive Director, MaleSurvivor

“Shonna Milliken Humphrey long has walked the difficult walk of the spouse of a sexual abuse victim. She has now extended a much-needed hand to others in her shoes and opened a large window of understanding needed by the rest of us.”

SUZANNE STREMPEK SHEA Author of Sundays in America; Shelf Life; and Songs from a Lead-Lined Room