Читать книгу Summary: Amour – Amour – Amour. La puissance de l’acceptation. Lise Bourbeau - Smart Reading, Ольга Ганкова - Страница 4

1. Give others the right to who they are or what they want to be, even if you do not like their choice (acceptance does not mean agreement as you may not agree with the choice; you don’t approve of it, but you accept it, which means do not try to change it). Let them live their own life experiences and take responsibility for the consequences of their decisions, even if it hurts you.

2. Do not judge or criticize.

3. Advise and suggest if you want to help, but do not expect that people will take your advice. Only they can decide. Our expectations of other people lead to disappointment and negative emotions because people are not always willing and able to live up to them.

4. If you want something from another person you can only ask rather than demand. And this person has the right not to do you a favor, and to act as only he or she wants. If the person does indeed do something for you, you should accept this with gratitude and not take it for granted. No one owes you anything if there is no previous agreement in place.