Читать книгу The Complete Parenting Collection - Steve Biddulph, Steve Biddulph - Страница 46
Guiding the ‘high-drive’ boys
ОглавлениеTestosterone provides energy and focus. A boy with high levels of the hormone makes good leadership material. Early in the school year, teachers often notice a certain kind of boy who will either become a hero of the class or a complete villain. For this boy there is no middle ground. This type of boy stands out by his:
challenging behaviour and competitiveness
greater physical maturity, and
high energy levels.
If the teacher is able to befriend such a boy and direct his energies in good ways, the boy will thrive and be a plus in the school. If the teacher or parent ignores, backs off or is negative towards the boy, then the boy’s pride will depend on defeating the adult, and problems will compound. These boys have leadership potential, but leadership has to be taught from an early age.