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Whether you’re aware of it or not, you may be bringing out the worst in the men you love by how you behave around them.

I am not saying that the problems in relationships are all the women’s fault, or that how we behave is “wrong” or “bad,” or that men don’t need to change and we do. I am saying that how women act around men is 50 percent of the problem.

Many of the behaviors we’ve adopted to try to be “loving women” are the very behaviors that are destructive to our relationships with men

Of course, we don’t make these mistakes on purpose. Most of us were taught these behavior patterns by our mothers, and their mothers before them, but when we act out these old roles and habits, they end up making us feel bad about ourselves as women, and actually encourage men to treat us badly.

THE 6 BIGGEST MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE WITH MEN

1 WOMEN ACT LIKE MOTHERS AND TREAT MEN LIKE CHILDREN

2 WOMEN SACRIFICE WHO THEY ARE AND PUT THEMSELVES SECOND IN IMPORTANCE TO THE MAN THEY LOVE

3 WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN’S POTENTIAL

4 WOMEN COVER UP THEIR EXCELLENCE AND COMPETENCE

5 WOMEN GIVE UP THEIR POWER

6 WOMEN ACT LIKE LITTLE GIRLS TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM MEN