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Class

Bow, bow, ye lower middle classes! Bow, bow, ye tradesmen, bow, ye masses.

W. S. GILBERT

1836–1911

UNFORTUNATELY, a class system exists in nearly every country in the world. But as individuals it should not present a problem, unless of course your work is affected by it. Class, as I can see it, should be about dignity, no matter what race or creed. We can all attain it. To be dignified is not to be blind, it is knowing how to project your image in the correct manner and keep your self-respect. It is not easy, when all around are seizing every opportunity to foul up your life – but it can be done. Try the following exercise.

Visualisation: You are at a party where the guests are luxuriously dressed. You walk through the room, head high and feeling like a million dollars even though you are wearing a cheap outfit. People stare and gossip, making snide remarks as you pass. But as you look closer you realise they are unhappy and you feel sorry for them. There are a few who congratulate you on your outfit and immediately make you feel welcome. They have class. You turn around and smile kindly at the gossips. You have class too. But you also have the knowledge that you achieved everything you have with your own talent and integrity. That makes you special, and you feel good. Class is of your own making.

Affirmation: I am a class act – and hard to follow.