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Chapter 5

Trolling for Supply…

Please be hopeful. You are arming yourself with some powerful knowledge. If you don’t feel your new strength yet, we are confident you soon will. Let’s continue this journey together. There is a lot more to learn.

When things seem to be going right in the life of an N, he doesn’t need his supply. His partner becomes unnecessary, as he feels no reason to be uplifted and needs no one to blame for his problems. Because the N feels “special,” he expects others to appease him when things do not go his way. In his mind, people are there as amulets to cheer, encourage and support him as he continues his journey through life. He doesn’t see them as individuals who need their own emotional support or who have their own paths to travel. That is why he feels confused if they refuse to cater to his needs or if they express the desire for support in their own lives.