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1. Anyone? Yes, Practically Anyone

Science ‘Discovers’ Sex

How More Research Was Compiled

How the Techniques Were Developed

How I Tested the Techniques

2. What Makes People Fall in Love?

1. First Impressions

2. Similar Character, Complementary Needs

3. Equity

4. Ego

5. Early-Date Gender-Menders

6. ℞ for Sex

3. The Physical Side of Falling in Love

‘Why Do My Insides Go All Funny?’

‘Does Somebody Have to be Pea-Brained to Fall in Love with Me?’

‘Why Do We Fall in Love with One Person and Not Another?’

‘How Can These Little Things Start Love?’

4. Where Are All the Good Men and Women?

Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

5. Does Love at First Sight Exist?

Part One: First Impressions

6. How to Make a Dynamite First Impression

First Impressions Last Forever

Be Ready for Love – Always!

Stay Psychologically ‘Fit to Kill’

7. How to Ignite Love at First Sight

How Much Eye Contact Does it Take to Imitate Love?

How to Get Sexy ‘Bedroom Eyes’

How to Awaken Primal, Unsettling, Sexy Feelings in Your Quarry

Naughty Eyes Are So Nice

8. Your First Approach

The Gentle Art of Pickup (Not for Men Only)

Hunters, Make the First Move … Fast

Huntresses, Make the Fast Move … First

First Moves That Work for Women

9. Your First Body Language

Let Your Body Do the Talking

The Dance of Intimacy

When You Are Quarry

The Word That Can Save Your Relationship

‘But This Is So Basic!’

10. Your First Conversation

Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together

Conversation Is Like Making Love

Conversation Is Like Selling

How to Know What Topic Turns Your Quarry On

How to Fool Your Quarry into Thinking You Two Are Already in Love

Get Even Closer by Giving the Gift of Intimacy

Make Your Lifestyle ‘Fit’ Your Quarry’s Lovemap

11. Your First Date

The Game Begins in Earnest

‘How Soon Should I Make My Move?’

‘Playing Hard to Get – Should I, or Shouldn’t I?’

The Scientifically Proven Best First Date

Give Your Quarry First-Date Butterflies

Plant the Seeds of Similarity

First-Date Restaurant Smarts

Hunters, Some Spit and Polish for Your P’s and Q’s

Huntresses, Forgive His Foibles

First-Date Duds

‘I Haven’t Got a Thing to Wear’

Part Two: Similar Character, Complementary Needs

12. ‘It’s You and Me, Baby, Alone Against This Mad, Mad World’

Similarity … and a Touch of Difference (Just a Touch)

13. How to Establish Subconscious Similarity

How to Instantly Make Your Quarry Feel, ‘Why, We’re Just Alike!’

Words to Give Your Quarry ‘That Family Feeling’

‘We Even Speak the Same (Body) Language’

14. How to Establish Conscious Similarity

The Three Crucial Conscious Similarities

Let’s Talk About Our Relationship – Not!

15. How to Establish Complementary Needs

‘I Got Just What You Need, Sweetheart’

Part Three: Ego

16. The World Revolves Around You, My Quarry

Ego Massage Is a Highly Skilled Craft

17. Step One: Silent Praise

Let Your Body Do the Praising

18. Step Two: Empathy

‘I Can Identify with That!’

Lovers Share Intimate Details

Lovers Have Private Jokes

19. Step Three: Admiration

‘Oh, Darling, You Did an Absolutely Superb Job Slicing These Mushrooms’

20. Step Four: The Implied Compliment

‘You’re Much Too Young to Remember This, But …’

The Bull’s-Eye Booster: ‘I Just Love What You Like About Yourself’

21. Step Five: The Big Guns

‘YOU Are the Most Fascinating Person I’ve Ever Met’

‘What Does Giving a Killer Compliment Do for Me?’

22. Fine-Tuning the Ego-Machine

‘Wait a Minute. Does Everybody Like Compliments?’

Knee-Jerk Praise: ‘What You Just Did Was Fabulous’

Have the First Laugh

Lovers Give Each Other Pet Names

When Your Quarry Praises You

23. Keeping the Love Coals Warm

‘I Love the Way You Wrinkle Your Nose When You Laugh’

Part Four: Equity

24. Everybody’s Got a Market Value, Baby

Why is Finding Love Like Horse Trading?

What Currency ‘Buys’ a Good Partner?

25. How Can I Use the Equity Principle to Find Love?

‘You Really Don’t Want to Marry the Handsome Prince or the Beautiful Princess’

‘Why Don’t I Want to Get Married?’

‘What Happens if Inequity Strikes After We’re Married?’

26. How Important Are Looks?

What Types of Looks Do Women Like?

What Types of Looks Do Men Like?

‘How Can I Make My Quarry Think I’m Better Looking?’

How to Beef Up Your Odds on Making the Kill

27. Pursuing Rich and Famous Prey

The Look of Money

The Sound of Class

What Does the U Crowd Talk About?

Use Status Words with Status Prey

28. Upping Your Ante in Other Assets

Knowledge, Social Graces and Inner Beauty Are Tangible Assets

29. Help Them Convince Themselves That They Love You

Let Your Quarry Do Favours for You

Hey! What About ‘O Lyric Love, Half Angel and Half Bird’?

Part Five: Early-Date Gender-Menders

30. ‘I Hope He or She’s Not an Idiot Like All the Others’

‘I Want a Man I Can Talk to, a Woman Who Thinks Like a Man’

31. What Is ‘Man Talk’ and What Is ‘Woman Talk’? (Do They Exist?)

32. ‘How Do You Feel About That?’

33. ‘Excuse Me, Could You Tell Me Where …?’

34. ‘Please, Spare Me the Details’

35. ‘Tell Me (Don’t Tell Me) About It’

36. ‘What’s the Best Way to Get from A to B?’

‘A Straight Line!’ He Declares; ‘A Gentle Curve?’ She Asks

37. ‘Could You Give Me a Hand with This?’

38. Little Words to Win Your Quarry’s Heart

39. Are There Dangerous Waters Ahead in the Gender Gap?

Part Six: ℞ for Sex

40. Your Quarry’s Hottest Erogenous Zone

41. No Two Sexualities Are Alike, as No Two Snowflakes Are Alike

How Do Men’s and Women’s Sexual Desires Differ?

Why Are Men’s and Women’s Fantasies So Different?

Yet More Differences

How to Use Differences to Make Your Quarry Fall in Love with You

42. Forget the Golden Rule between the Sheets

Men in Lust, Women in Love

43. Hunters, Make Love to a Woman as a Woman Wants It

The One-Hour Lesson That Will Change Your Life

Another Crash Course in Steamy Sensuality for Men

44. Huntresses, Have Sex with a Man as a Man Wants It

Let’s Go to the Videotape

Additional ‘Coarse’ Materials for Your Raw Sex Curriculum

45. A Quiz: Who Loves More, Men or Women?

Who Falls in Love Faster? Men!

Who Is More Idealistic About Love? Men!

Who Usually Initiates the Break-up? Women!

Who Suffers More from a Break-up? Men!

Who Loves Their Lovers More? Men!

46. Your Quarry’s Sexual Desires Are as Individual as a Thumbprint

Sex Is Like a Steak

The Number One Sexual Wish

‘Why Did He or She Lose Interest?’

‘Is This Woman Enough for Me Sexually for the Rest of My Life?’

47. Huntresses, Become a Sexual Sleuth

Let Your Quarry Know You Are a Sexual Adventurer

Uncover His Core Fantasies

Make Your Quarry Feel Safe Sharing His Deepest Desires

The Hot Purr Follow-Up

Do All Men Have a Sexual Secret?

Ask Knock-His-Socks-Off Details Questions

Huntresses, Discover His Trigger Words

Give Your Quarry Good Bed Rap

48. Hunters, Do These Techniques Work with Women?

Peel Back Her Layers and Lay Bare Her Deeper Fantasies

Love Her as She Needs to Be Loved

Magic Words to Make Her Love You

Huntresses, Relationship Trigger Words Work for You, Too

49. Finally, Snaring the Confirmed Bachelor

Why Do Jerrys Want Such Far-Out Sex?

A Walk on the Weird Side

50. On Looking at Other Women

51. The Final Stone Unturned

Afterword

Also by Leil Lowndes

Notes

About the Author

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