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PREFACE.
ОглавлениеHERE is much truth and force in the old saying, that "Manners make the man." All persons should know how to appear to the best advantage in polite society. This very attractive volume furnishes rules of etiquette for all occasions, and is a complete guide for daily use in all matters pertaining to social intercourse.
The first department treats of Introductions and Salutations. The rules given under this head are those constantly observed in the best society. The same is equally true of all the instructions throughout the book, which is the most complete work on this subject ever issued.
The next department treats of the very important Art of Conversation. It has been said, with truth, that "a good talker is always a social success." The reader is here taught how to converse agreeably and with ease. To be a bright, witty, interesting talker, is a most charming accomplishment. This volume is a help in this respect, the value of which cannot be overestimated.
Visiting Cards and Customs are next treated, and all the perplexing questions which they occasion are fully answered. With this very comprehensive volume at hand, no person will be guilty of blunders and humiliating mistakes.
Invitations, Formal and Informal, Acceptances and Regrets, form another topic. The work furnishes full information and is authority upon all matters of social etiquette.
All young persons, and some older ones, are deeply interested in the Etiquette of Courtship and Marriage, Weddings and Wedding Anniversaries. These subjects are treated in a manner at once practical and instructive.
The usages of the best society in giving Parties, Dinners, Teas, Receptions, Breakfasts, Luncheons, etc., are minutely described. Also, Home Etiquette and Etiquette for Children. With this volume in the home, parents can easily teach the young polite and winning manners.
Miscellaneous Entertainments form a department that is bright and sparkling. The dark side of life is not overlooked, Etiquette of Funerals forming a separate topic. How the young lady should "come out" is stated in full, with invaluable instructions to her parents and herself.
Then we come to Etiquette of Public Places, followed by that of Walking, Riding, Boating, Driving, etc. Etiquette for Bicycle Riders receives full attention. Here are Hints for Travelers, for Hostess and Guest, General Etiquette and Delsarte Discipline, Musicales, Soirées, Lawn Parties, etc. Washington Etiquette is described and all the proper titles for professional and public men are given.
The Art of Dress receives exhaustive treatment, and the rules to be observed by those who would dress tastefully are very complete. They who are well dressed have already made a favorable impression upon others. Suggestions and rules upon this subject are important to all who would shine in social life.
Letter-Writing makes constant demands upon nearly all persons, yet its difficulties are perplexing. Here are plain directions upon this subject, which should be studied and followed by all who would succeed in the great art of elegant correspondence. It is essential often to have the best Forms for Letters, happily expressed, choice in the use of words and easy and correct in grammatical construction.
Artistic Home Decorations are fully treated, showing how to have a pretty, tasteful and inviting home at least expense. This subject is receiving great attention everywhere, and this delightful volume should be in every household in the land, as it furnishes just the information needed. Fireplaces and Windows, Stairways, Woodwork, Doors, Lighting, Decorating, Furniture and Paintings, are among the topics treated in this part of the volume.
In short, this work is a treasury of rules and information on every subject of Social Etiquette, Self-Culture and Home Life.
An entirely new and very important feature is the beautiful Phototype Engravings in rich colors. The publishers consider themselves fortunate in being able to present these new and admirable embellishments, which have been pronounced gems of art.
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Title-Page | i |
Preface | iii |
Contents | v |
The Essence of Etiquette | 17 |
Introductions and Salutations | 23 |
Art of Conversation | 37 |
Visiting Cards | 51 |
Visiting Customs | 69 |
Invitations, Formal and Informal | 83 |
Acceptances and Regrets | 107 |
Etiquette of Courtship and Marriage | 116 |
Weddings and Wedding Anniversaries | 143 |
Home Etiquette | 165 |
Etiquette for Children | 180 |
Dinner Giving | 189 |
Table Etiquette | 211 |
Evening Parties, Receptions and Suppers | 227 |
Balls, Dancing and Masquerades | 241 |
Soirées, Musicales and Lawn Parties | 261 |
Breakfasts, Luncheons and Teas | 274 |
Miscellaneous Entertainments | 296 |
Christenings, Confirmations and Graduations | 315 |
Etiquette of Funerals and Mourning | 323 |
Etiquette of Public Places | 328 |
Walking, Riding, Boating, Driving | 334 |
Bicycle Etiquette | 343 |
Club Etiquette | 352 |
Society | 358 |
General Etiquette | 364 |
Washington Etiquette | 374 |
Delsartean Discipline | 378 |
Art of Dress | 388 |
Colors and Complexions | 398 |
Dress for Special Occasions | 408 |
Letter Writing | 429 |
Forms for Letters | 452 |
Artistic Home Decorations | 467 |
How to be Beautiful | 492 |
THE SUMMER OUTING—A MORNING CALL.