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Fear is important because it leads to happiness. Failure is important because it leads to success. You need to look at failure not as failure but as learning. If you can reframe your mindset to see two possible outcomes when approaching a new task — I will either learn something (instead of viewing it as failure) or I will achieve my goal — then you'll be in a better mindset and more willing to take risks and grow. I tell myself that it will be uncomfortable at the beginning but if I can stick to it, things will get easier. And they always do. Once you can grasp this, you'll become so much better equipped to improve yourself.

There's no right or wrong way to go about anything and you need to learn to trust yourself, to trust your gut. Everyone has an opinion and they're often projecting their own insecurities onto you when offering advice. If you can simplify things and work out what you value, what you're passionate about and what you want to dedicate each day to doing, then the rest will work itself out.

Remember that you can't control what will happen in the future, but you can control what you decide to do and where you want to put your attention right now — and that's all you can ever control.