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Relationships don’t work for one of two reasons:

1. You are with the right person but you are loving wrong.

You and your partner have poor communication habits.

You don’t know how to create real intimacy.

You don’t ask for what you want, and end up feeling resentful.

You neglect the relationship.

or

2. You are with the wrong person.

Your love or life-style is incompatible with your partner’s.

You do not share enough common values and commitments.

Your partner has ‘fatal flaws’ that make having a successful relationship impossible.

You can’t give each other enough of what you need.

Several years ago I wrote my first book, How to Make Love All the Time, as a manual to help people learn how to love one another in a way that creates healthy, passionate, fulfilling relationships. The book was really about how to stop loving the wrong way and start loving the right way, reason number one above. But that information, as valuable as it has been to millions of my readers around the world, is incomplete without the material I’ve included in this book, because if you are loving the wrong person, loving the right way won’t make a difference.

WHOM YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE IS AS IMPORTANT AS HOW YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE.