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Dear Greg

Here’s one for you. I went out with a great guy for two years. He didn’t cheat, never lied, always made me feel special, and basically treated me like a queen. Then, two months ago, he tells me that he doesn’t have feelings for me anymore and doesn’t see the relationship going any further and hopes that we can be friends. I know for a fact that there’s not another woman, so I can only take him at his word because he’s never been anything but up front with me. So what happened?

Jennifer

Dear Great Gatsby,

Some guys (and ladies too) are great. In fact, many of them are. That’s why we like them so much, fall in love with them, and are disappointed when it doesn’t work out in the end. Sadly, that’s how it is sometimes. Two people in a relationship either grow together or apart over time. Sometimes they do both, and that’s the most puzzling. Regardless, it’s a very real occurrence that one’s feelings can stop growing for no identifiable reason. What you can be grateful for is his honesty, the untarnished memory of a healthy relationship, and the realization that great guys do exist, and hopefully you’ll find the right one for you that you’ll go the distance with. You found one once, you’ll find one again. Promise.