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Losing your partner is one of the hardest things you'll ever have to endure. The moment they disappear through the door it literally feels like the world begins to crash down all around you. It can be both mentally and physically crippling and leave you contemplating all kinds of thoughts that you never thought you'd have - that you never wanted to have. Or, just as commonly, you can lose the ability to think clearly at all as you become lost in a haze of despair and uncertainty.

To those who have never experienced abandonment at the hands of a loved one it is hard to fully grasp the degree to which it hurts and the extent to which the pain it sends your way can debilitate and consume every moment of your life.

"There's plenty of fish in the ocean," they'll say.

"You'll get over it, don't worry about it, just move on," others will add.

"They didn't deserve you anyway, their loss."

Such advice may be well-meaning and even accurate but it's usually not very helpful if all you want is for the person you love to come back into your life. Yes, there are plenty of people out there that might replace your partner, but right about now there's only one person you can think of. Maybe it really is "their loss", but if that were true why does your heart feel like it is being squashed in a vice? Yes, you'll get over it one way or the other, but you can't just move on while there's a chance that, if you play your cards right, you can mend things and restore your relationship.

The truth is any relationship that is truly special is worth trying to salvage. Anyone who tells you otherwise is wrong. It doesn't matter if you've already broken up and things seem like a lost cause. When it hurts as bad as I'm guessing it's hurting you right now, know that the pain you're feeling is your heart telling you that what you had was special and you don't want to lose it. But guess what: if you give up now or make all the wrong choices while trying to save it, you will lose your ex forever.

This book has been written to help make sure that doesn't happen to you.