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Mark has had type 2 diabetes for several years. He never paid much attention to it, because he always felt fine. Recently, how-ever, Mark and his family have noticed a very definite change in his behavior and attitude toward the things that he used to enjoy. He no longer asks his wife and children about their day when he arrives home from the office. He doesn’t plan family activities for the weekends like he used to do. All he does is lie down on the couch and watch television. He doesn’t even care what’s on. He’ll watch old movies, reality shows, and even the poorly written sitcoms that he always thought were a huge waste of time. Nowadays, he feels so tired that he can’t muster up enough energy to do much else. At first, his wife worried that he was ill, but that concern quickly turned into frustration. He never listens to her, doesn’t compliment her on anything she does, and no longer wants to join her for a night out to see a movie or be with friends. Mark has depression and it is affect-ing their relationship.

Depression’s Toll on Relationships

You May Feel Less Interested in Sex

Many emotional and life issues can cause your libido (sexual interest) to drop:

Communication problems within your relationship

A hectic schedule that limits time with your partner

Family-related needs

A history of negative or traumatic sexual experiences

Poor self-image from weight gain or other changes

Financial pressures