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Sometimes my family and relatives get together. The reason we meet usually is some holiday or someone’s birthday. Of course, I’m going to such meetings with happiness, hoping to see the people close to me, to talk to them and have a lovely time.

At first, everything is normal; just all people are a little shy. All sit quietly and talk to each other. At first, all is good. Some of the guests are a bit shy, but it’s not critical, though many people think differently. And here we start little by little to drink alcohol. Everybody knows that drinking make it easier to communicate, and this is true. After drinking a few glasses it becomes simpler to talk, but the fact is that we lost the quality of communication. Now we don’t get a joy we usually get when we are sober.

After drinks, we can already talk in a more relaxed way. We believe that now we are in more priority position. Now we talk much more than before. And it doesn’t matter for you what you are saying at this time. Now the more important thing for you – it’s the noise. You start talking loudly and occasionally even yelling. It depends on how much you’ve drunk. Now comes a time when we all just sit and yell at each other.