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When your boss cancels a long-scheduled vacation, you may get justifiably angry, and the next day you won’t have any trouble remembering what triggered your anger. At other times, you just seem to “snap” when your child forgets to take out the garbage. Later you say, “I don’t know what got into me.” The first case is a genuine emotion, the second is a definite counterfeit.

Thinking of a loved one who has died may make you teary, but if every sad or sentimental TV commercial brings you to tears, you’re in the grip of false pain.

PMS is notorious for its bad moods. If you’re reasonably even-tempered the rest of the month, but become teary and nasty before your period, you’re experiencing a clear-cut case of hormonally disrupted emotional balance—a false mood.

We all make mistakes and beat ourselves up from time to time. But if you are finding fault with your behavior or appearance almost every day, it’s likely that false feelings of low self-esteem are responsible.

You shouldn’t have to live with these kinds of distorted moods on a regular basis. It’s like having an engine that sputters, preventing you from having a smooth emotional ride. When your brain’s emotional equipment needs a tune-up, you get clues: you don’t sleep well, you worry too much, you start feeling overwhelmed, you lose your enthusiasm or your ability to concentrate. You might also start depending on chocolate, wine, or marijuana to get some relief. If you experience these kinds of symptoms frequently, you may have just come to accept them, assuming them simply to be unfortunate features of your basic personality. But chances are you’re wrong. Now you have an opportunity to discover your true emotional nature.