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You are a social being. Like all humans, you require loving touch on a regular basis, and you will wither away inside when you are deprived of hugs, strokes and physical affection. Are you getting the touch you need to feel happy? Are your sexuality and sensuality being fully expressed? Are you GIVING enough touch to your loved ones?

Are you naturally a touchy-feely person? If so, you may use your body freely to communicate; and are uninhibited in physical expression.

On the other hand, you may be more reserved. You don’t often hug strangers or touch others during conversations, and you may find it hard to show physical affection, even if you are in a long-term committed relationship. And when you are upset, you will probably freeze from touch of any kind, which only further isolates you from your loved one.

Don’t judge your patterning surrounding the issue of touch. Merely observe it. Then ask whether your needs are being adequately met. Are you offending others because you violate their personal space with too much touching? Then consider toning it down. Or if you often feel lonely and unloved, you may want to open up a bit and give yourself more access to physical comfort and joy.