Читать книгу Eat Like You Teach - Irene Pace RD - Страница 7

Chapter 1:

An Introduction

“I don’t have to know how to solve a problem in me. I just have to be willing to have a new experience. Practice observing. Practice acceptance. Practice willingness.”

–Tracy McMillian

Being a nutrition professional who is struggling with eating sucks. It’s not just about your pants not fitting or the mind games you play with yourself like you can almost feel your arteries slamming shut (true story) or it’s somehow okay because what you’re impulsively eating is fruit and cottage cheese (also a true story). It’s isolating, distracting, and it messes with your confidence, your identity, and your integrity. You don’t turn to friends for support because you’re their go-to for all things nutrition. Outing yourself to colleagues feels like career suicide (not to mention more shame than you could bear right now).

As your waistline grows, you feel like it’s the elephant in the room. You’re distracted in appointments, wondering if your clients are onto you. The word “fraud” invades your thoughts like that song you can’t stand but can’t get out of your head. Eating trouble is not only costing you your health and eroding your confidence, but it’s beginning to pick away at your sanity too.

I bet you’ve tried to figure this out. Maybe casually at first when you felt a little off-track. You tightened things up for a while. At some point you thought, “Okay, I better do something about this. Time to get serious.” Perhaps that looked like a highly detailed meal plan and tracking sheet or apps or both. Perhaps you went the route of expertly calculated macros and meal templates (but which ratios to use… hmmm?). Perhaps, even though you know it never works, you said goodbye to bread or chocolate or cheese “forever.”

What would you give right now to have your eating back on track? To go to bed at night knowing you’ve got this (and your pants will fit in the morning)? To feel sharp and focused at work and enjoy time with your family and friends - free from the weight of this secret you’ve been hauling around?

This book serves to help you reset and experience what it feels like to get your eating back in alignment with your values and your identity. To put an end to creeping weight and the worry that goes along with watching your waistline grow. To let you know that you’re not alone and to give you a clear plan from a trusted source to get back to living life the way that matters most to you.

Invite All Parts of You Along for the Ride

Parts of you want to show up in the biggest of ways and do what you know needs to be done to see yourself through this. Other parts of you are afraid. What is this is going to look like? What if it doesn’t work? What if you actually are a fraud? What if you’re doomed to just keep eating like this and gaining weight and feeling like crap forever?

While I can’t take your fear away, I can tell the part of you that is afraid this: I had the same fears and it’s ok to be afraid and do it anyway. It will be difficult but so worth it. The tools and system I share with you here are the ones I use to help myself and others like you. Every. Single. Day. One sure thing is that time will tick forward. You can pass that time continuing to do what you already know isn’t working or you can try a different way. What you’re doing now will always be there to go back to - anytime you choose.

Feeling conflicted is a normal, and even necessary, part of the change process. You know this and you see it in your clients all the time. It’s different when it happens to you, right? It is, but it isn’t. The question becomes, how can you feel conflicted and move forward anyway?

Let the part of you that wants to keep reading, help the part of you that is afraid. It’s not exactly that easy, but the solution is a lot less complicated than you allow yourself to believe. It seems fitting that a big messy problem should have an equally complicated solution, right? I thought so, too.

Here’s what I learned instead.

The Small, Less Complicated Solution

Consistent and persistent actions trump big grand gestures. It’s the small actions that you take every day, every hour, every moment, that matter most. No choice is neutral. Each choice moves you towards or away from where you want to go and who you want to be. There is huge opportunity in that. Any moment is a chance to begin again. You get to cast little votes in favor of you over and over and over. The end game is to be consistent and persistent at taking actions that are best for your body, and your life. To, most of the time, choose the actions that serve you best.

If you’re still here reading, I imagine you want to know how to do that. Welcome to my story and the strategies that changed my life. The principles in this book have the power to change your life too. You will see more clearly where you keep getting stuck. You will know a way though this is possible if you are willing to think differently and lean into discovering and following a path that is uniquely yours.

To begin, you get to figure out what works for you. What is best for you and your body and your life. In order to take consistent and persistent action on something, you have to know what that something is. You can’t figure this one out in your head, sorry think-y folks. You’ve got to try stuff. Get open to, and deliberate about, experiencing new things. I’ll teach you a system to do just that.

Next, once you find what works for you, get consistent and persistent about doing it. You’ll explore what helps you be more consistent and how to do more of that. You’ll look at what gets in the way of you being consistent and how can you clear those obstacles from your path.

In Part I: Reality (Chapters two and three) you’ll get a deeper look at the solution and learn about building an Owner’s Manual for yourself. A set of handling instructions for your body and your life that open the door for you to care for yourself like someone you are responsible for caring for.

In Part II: Reboot (Chapters four to six) you will learn principles and a framework to figure stuff out and build your Owner’s Manual.

In Part III: Reset (Chapters seven to nine) you put that framework into action to build the Eating, Movement, Sleep, and Environment sections of your Owner’s Manual.

In Part IV: Reclaim (Chapters ten to twelve) you’ll learn strategies to get consistent and persistent and put the Owner’s Manual you just created into action, no matter what life throws your way.

This book is about helping you back to what matters to you. It’s about discovering and owning what works for your body and your life, no matter what anyone else thinks or believes or does. It’s about moving from knowing to doing and then from doing to doing consistently. Trading big grand temporary gestures for every day actions, votes in favor of you, that move you in the direction of your desired future self.