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Your nonverbal behavior enables you to soften the fact that you are requiring your child to do something now. Tone of voice, facial expression, and body posture all come together to communicate your intention that the child follow your direction, now. See what happens when Dad speaks calmly and stands and holds.

Dad: “Ali, put your shoes in the closet now, please.”

Ali: “Aw, Dad. I'm busy.”

Dad, in the same pleasant tone, standing and holding: “Ali, put your shoes in the closet now, please.”