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As we talk about your teenagers’ tumultuous behavior, the focus of this book may appear to be negatively slanted, when, in fact, it is only the behavior that is negative. The teaching tools included in these pages are intended to help you learn how to form boundaries and enforce consequences. We urge you to view these tools in a positive light, as they will pave the way for new and more constructive behaviors for both you and your teenager.

You are reading this book because of your concern for your child, and probably also because your parenting methods have been unsuccessful in the past. We are trained and skilled in identifying and redirecting your child’s behavior, and because we are not emotionally conjoined with your child, we can offer assistance without the interference of self-doubt or guilt. You, on the other hand, have something to offer that we cannot: You have the ability to love and nurture your child. Together, we can formulate a well-constructed plan for success: We can provide the parenting guidelines as long as you provide the consistency and unconditional love. Together, this team cannot fail. However, to insure the success of our plan, you must commit to like your child, particularly when he or she is impossibly unlikable, and to parent consistently according to the guidelines we are about to share with you. This will take hard work, but the rewards you reap will be well worth it.