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When you test drive a car, only you can reject the car. But dating is a two-way proposition, and so you’re bound to be rejected occasionally, or maybe over and over. Rejection is hard but becomes less so when it occurs regularly. The danger is that you put up a wall in order to protect yourself from being disappointed, and that in turn causes you to hide your true personality — thus making it even more likely that you’ll be rejected.

Is it worthwhile to be rejected again and again, each rejection delivering a blow to your ego? If in the end you’re going to discover true love, then the answer would be yes. But to hasten the pace of getting that one Yes you’re seeking, I’d suggest learning from those rejections and seeing whether there’s something you might be doing that is putting others off.