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Ann’s comments: ‘I never realized how much these childhood events affected me. All along I’ve known I was choosing the wrong men, but I couldn’t figure out why. Reading down that column of decisions I made as a little girl was frightening, but I could feel in my heart that part of me really still believes those things. I attracted men who made me feel the same way I felt with my father—angry, discounted, betrayed. The worst part is, I didn’t even recognize the pattern because I was so used to having those feelings in childhood.’

Now that Ann understands more about why she has attracted the wrong partners, she can begin making changes to attract the right partner.

ONCE YOU BECOME AWARE OF YOUR UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS ABOUT LOVE, YOU CAN MAKE NEW, HEALTHY DECISIONS.

Later we’ll talk more about how to ‘reprogram’ your mind so you can break free from the unhealthy habits of the past.

Here are some more samples of the kinds of love choices you might have made based on childhood events and the decisions about love that followed: