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If you’re in love, the introduction of sex will come naturally. You’ll both want to have it, and you won’t be afraid of what will happen. Your love will give you both the confidence that, no matter what happens, the relationship will continue and you’ll both be able to improve, assuming any improvements are needed.

Falling in love can be a shared experience or a one-way experience. If it’s shared, if you’re both in love and have said those magic words to each other, then I see no reason to delay in moving forward on the sexual continuum if you’re both ready to do so. But if you’re in love and the other person isn’t reciprocating that emotion, I would advise putting on the brakes. If you start using sex in order to hold onto somebody for the wrong reasons, you’ll probably end up hurt.