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Commitment and Marriage
ОглавлениеIN THIS CHAPTER
Finding the right partner
Knowing you deserve love
Strengthening your marriage
Communicating lovingly
Sharing time together
If you’ve already found the ideal partner, marriage may be in your future. Congratulations. If you’re already married, then I’ll go one step further and say Mazel Tov.
But some people who get married don’t plan on a lifetime commitment. If you approach marriage with that attitude, you just may get your wish. No one is perfect. No two people share identical tastes in every way. Conflict is inevitable in every marriage. The situation would be unnatural if no disagreements pop up; after all, you and your partner aren’t clones.
Your tolerance for that conflict depends very much on your commitment to the marriage in the first place. If you approach marriage with that proverbial ten-foot pole stuck out in front of you, then any marriage you enter into is destined to fail.
In this chapter, we’ll go over how to use your commitment to a relationship to make sure that the relationship is in as good a shape as possible as well as how to make it through any rough spots.