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While I would understand that some of you feel that this approach to advancing in the sexual arena is cumbersome, it does offer some benefits. The best sex is achieved when the two partners can be open with each other and communicate their likes, dislikes, and especially needs. Many couples struggle with this and end up having sex that might or might not be satisfying but certainly is without a “wow” factor. But if a couple starts out being open about sex by asking about how to progress each step of the way, that openness should definitely then translate into improving their sex life.

So if you’re hesitant about adopting a positive attitude towards being more verbal about asking permission as you advance through the various sexual stages, consider the advantages rather than just taking a negative attitude. Yes, it’s more difficult to verbalize some of these requests than to hint at them physically but the offsetting rewards might more than compensate.