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The power of the kinship of souls helps you to examine, decipher, and resolve your barcodes, step-by-step together. Of course, that’s no guarantee, but in the long run, it can be an efficient way for you to cope with your recurring problems. Once, after couples therapy, a man said to his wife: “Now that I’m free to leave you, because I have become so aware and clear about everything, I’m also free to stay with you. Now I can experience new things with you and don’t have to keep repeating my old paradigms.”

Stick to it even if your conflicts are great ones. Do it for yourself, your children, and your partner. So many sons and daughters would have wished for their parents to have reflected consciously on their relationship! One of our clients once said: “Today I’m glad that my parents split up. I don’t think it would have been possible to stay together. But if they had been willing to look at their issues together and process them, to reflect on what led to the split and to forgive each other, then I know my life would have been different and happier.”