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A Matter of the Heart

1.Lend Me Your Ear and I’ll Give You My Heart

A Voyage of Discovery in Each Other’s Country

Dialogue as a Bridge to Your Partner

What It Was Really About

2.Where Love Falls

Soulmates

What It Was Really About

3.You’re so Different from Me

Fascinating, the Way You Are

After the Sunshine Comes the Rain

The Lost Self

A Good Team—Recovering the Lost Self

What It Was Really About

4.The Dynamic Duo

Minimizers and Maximizers Two opposite temperaments

The real issue

The goal

What It Was Really About

5.An Honest Look at Yourself before Presenting Your Partner with a Relationship Book

It’s always me working on the relationship

I had a difficult childhood

My husband doesn’t help with the housework

Who is better – him or me?

I’m not pretty enough

Sexual assault

He only ever wants one thing

Men want to make us happy

What It Was Really About

6.Discover Your Feelings for Your Own Sake; Your Wife Will Be Thankful

This endless emotionalism

Like father, like son?

I am doing it for my wife’s sake

I will only accept help when the water is up to my neck

She spends hours talking about the same thing

My childhood was perfect!

My wife is so powerful

Careful, this is a test

What It Was Really About

7.A Thousand Reasons not to Talk to Each Other

The Space between You and Me

Evasive Maneuvers

Creating Awareness of Escape Hatches

What It Was Really About

8.Finally, Someone Understands Me

The affair – A sign that something is missing in the relationship

Clarifying instead of escaping

Crises as the engine of development processes

What It Was Really About

9.I Want to Become a Better Person for You

Embrace Conflict

90:10 – The Twin Pack

A Double Gift

Unlearning and Learning—And Making Room for Something New

What It Was Really About

10.Just Last Summer I Told My Wife that I Love Her

Love wants to be shaped and developed

The Five Love Languages

What It Was Really About

11.Sex, or The Simplest Thing in the World

The simplest thing in the world?

Eroticism and sex

What It Was Really About

12.Farewell Instead of Breaking Off

A Proper Farewell Provides a Basis for Something New

Pain Is a Healing Form of Energy

The Farewell Dialogue

Letting Go of Each Other

What It Was Really About

13.Had Children, Built a House, Planted a Tree—What Next?

Man strives as long as he lives

How Do I Find My Couples Vision?

Obstacles

What It Was Really About

Thank You